“How do I get my siblings to play with me instead of tech?”

“Several weeks ago, I spoke to a large group of elementary students in grades 4 to 6. One teacher had asked her class to prepare questions in advance, which were written on pieces of paper and handed to me at the front of the room. I did my best to get through them but ran out of time. I stuffed the rest of the questions into my bag.

Back home, I found myself flipping through them—there’s something irresistibly cute about children’s handwriting—and one question jumped out at me. A child had written, “How do I get my siblings to play with me instead of tech?” I paused, looking at the crookedly formed words, and my heart lurched a little. The question was practical, straightforward, and yet I sensed an underlying confusion, a sense of loss and disorientation, that filled me with sadness. It read like a small, mournful cry for help.”

This is an extract from Katherine Martinko’s Substack blog.

You can change your family’s rules and your mind at any time.

  1. Devices need to go away
  2. Fill the void.

The Analog Family -> Read this if you need some information to form your thinking.

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